A DREAM in a DREAM

I had a dream.

I was eating boiled rice for dinner and waiting anxiously for the 1st Professional Part II result.  All of the sudden news spread like wildfire that our result came out and that I had passed. Moments later someone came in the room and announced that Pakistan bowled out Sri Lanka on 10 runs in a one day match. I was shocked and amazed. A few moments later I came to know that 4^th year result is out, and I ran to tell them. Meanwhile I heard a voice in the hallway saying “Hurrah Pakistan won!” That night was amazing. Everything was awesome. We enjoyed a lot and had some real fun. Then I went to bed and slept hard and then again I SAW A DREAM.

                               It was morning. I was in a flat with my family. I was standing on the terrace with my mother . That scene from the balcony was the most beautiful scene I had ever seen. I could see barren hard rocks on the earth and on the sky there were twinkling stars, the moonlight, cool breeze, in fact I could see the whole Milky Way in a single glance. I started thinking how big this universe might be and thoughts started to come in my mind that we are very small creatures in front of this universe. I whispered this thought to my mother, she said “ see how vast this universe is and how beautifully God has created it and now controlling it, this earth’s life is only a test for here after, we can die any moment.” I said in reply “definitely this earth is for forever and I know when I will die as medicine have reached to a very advanced stage  I will die when I will be old, no chance of dying before that age “. she said my prayers are with you and kissed me on forehead. All of sudden  I heard a huge blast , saw a circle of dirt coming towards us . I ran for my life but in vain, I WAS DEAD.

                           When my (soul) eyes opened, I found myself in a very narrow space. I could only see walls of the mud. I could barely respire. I was terrified that scorpions and insects are coming to eat me. I was sobbing and crying for help. Then suddenly an angel came and asked me to come with Him. I could not see his face, but he was a very fast and intelligent creature. I supposed he was death angel.  I asked him “where are you taking me?” He said in reply “To your mother”. I asked “why?” He said “she is pious, she is dear to GOD , she prayed for you in every prayer, she prayed for you, not to harm you . God has accepted her prayer. I am taking you to her so that you can live with her till the DAY OF JUDGMENT. “

              On this my eyes opened but it was still a dream. All the celebrations were gone. I was scared and afraid. I told this dream to my mother . She said “Don’t forget your CREATOR who created you and this beautiful universe. Death is certain and you don’t know when your life’s going to end so the best way to get blessings of GOD is to respect your parents and offer prayers”

Finally I awoke with a stunned face and life’s lesson. I am very thankful to GOD that He showed me the right path . I hope so you don’t have to see such a dream to come to the right path.

WHO AM I ?

 I am your fate .
 I am your destiny .
 I  am desire of every person .
 I am your character .
 I am your thoughts.
 I am your nature .
 I am your soul.
 I am dignity of every living person on this planet.
ALL the people  successful are because of me ,they have enslaved me .
ALL those who are failure ,I have enslaved them .
Either u can control me or i will control u .. once u make me then i make you .
You can take me train me and i will take you to the heights of glory but if i train you, you will be zero you will  lose your identity.
 People judge you by me and you judge people by me.

  Guess  who am i ??
 I AM
"HABIT"

(basic idea from book
"7 habits of highly effective teens")

SILENCE PLEASE !!

                              A few days back, I observed  incredible thing when I was watching Australian Open Final between Murry and Djokovic. A single umpire was controlling more than 20 thousand people by merely saying “silence”. Not even please!

I wonder how well mannered and disciplined those people were. For all the rational people who are wondering what the hell I am talking about. I am talking about the environment of lecture-theater and protest culture in Pakistan. Of course, there was no involvement of CIA or ISI in silencing those people. It was just observation of moral ethics. I have another example to quote.

Quaid-e-azam (founder of Pakistan ) was scheduled to give a speech and while he was coming in his car towards the arena. He observed that people were making noise, dancing and enjoying like party’s going on. He really got upset at this. He ordered to stop the car, got out and said two words and left the arena without any speech. Guess what those two words were!! Those words were “LEARN MANNERS”

I could never understand why we don’t regard our teachers while they continuously shout at us “silence please”. I wonder what type of language we understand. Is this the attitude of the society as a whole, or is it root level training we are lacking in that begins from our home??? I wonder why people would damage their fellow being’s property or burn buses or tires in a protest. Are we uncivilized or we are civilized but it’s just frustration. You can decide better.

Nevertheless, a nation is known by his manners, discipline and moral values. I admit that we are a developing country, it will take time to develop but we should at-least take initiative to start building our attitude, behavior, moral values and manners first. So that one day we may be silenced by a single call of silence please and known as a great nation. Now it’s up to you whether we want to be a great nation or just a mob!! 

OUR SOCIETY

Common Excuse: “You” cannot change yourself. I know you didn’t even bother to bring a single change in yourself; you didn’t even try to motivate your friends. Being realistic, it’s not your fault. Being hopeless, I am thinking that it’s not about YOU. I think it’s about the society in which we are living, in which I am living.

I don’t know about your society but I’m living in a society where people are afraid to practice good deeds. I am living in a society where people discuss other people because they have nothing productive to do. I am living in a society where people laugh at you when you think “different”. I am living in a society where people appreciate a girl’s photo more than an intellectual note. I am living in a society where people think that they are perfect and you are the only defect in this world. I am living in a society where people apply “Golden Rule” (Treat ‘others’ as u wish to be treated by ‘others’) only upon others not upon themselves. I am living in a society where people are egoist. I am living in a society where people think, that to preach about good is none of their business. I am living in a society where people don’t understand others’ feelings; they only care about their own. I am living in a society

Where people continuously mumble and give no regard to the teacher. I am living in a society where people will never appreciate your hard work, but are always attentive if you fail to achieve something. I am living in a society where people make fun of you if you have short stature. I am living in a society where people think I’m writing this just to get your comments.

Oh wait a moment, let me recollect something. Which people am I talking about? Who are they? Are they from another religion, culture, or country? Wrong. They are from us. In fact, they are us. We as a society act like this. We are emotionless, heartless, and worthless. It needs to be corrected. You can decide better what you should do because I am not the “decision maker”. I cannot decide what is good for you. I can only give you a clue where to start.

It starts with YOU. I thought it is society who decide but it is YOU who makes society .                                                               

Now it’s your time to think!!

YOU

You know everyone is talking about change and I know that you will consider me just like "everyone" but don’t you think "The change" is "The revolution" now you will b thinking what revolution seriously! Yes revolution seriously. Revolution isn’t changing the whole world or whole Pakistan at once, it’s not about changing the whole corrupt system at once .It’s not about just changing our leaders! O what not about the leaders? Yes not about Imran Khan or any other.
 I think you know about whom I m talking about. It’s about that person who sees you every day in the mirror and laughs at you. It’s about that person who lies to others just to get benefits. It’s about that person who doesn’t leave his seat for the old man in the bus. It’s about that person who disobeys his parents by saying ''generation gap''. It’s about that person who wastes his money to subscribe an internet package rather than to do good to that kid who serves him every day in the cafeteria. It’s about that person who wastes his time merely for a "Computer Game" .It’s about that person who breaks his promises .It’s about that person who is mean to the world .It’s about that person who doesn’t apply the Golden rule(treat ‘others’ as u wish to be treated by ‘others’) to himself. It’s about that person who misses namaz just for a cricket match. It’s about that person who doesn’t keep a fast merely because he can’t spend a day without cigarette. It’s about that person who wastes his hours on facebook just for checking out people. It’s about that person who is reading this!

 Yes it’s about YOU .You have the world inside you , still to be discovered ,still to be identified ,still to be recognized by the world .Explore yourself. What you are? Change begins from the inside. Don’t try to change the whole arena of people, just change yourself. By seeing you as an example "everyone" will change. Set an example, start from yourself. Be a trend setter not a trend follower. Be the "driver" of your own life not a back seater. Just watching around what’s going on. Be faithful to Pakistan, be useful to your family, be grateful to GOD and be YOURSELF because you r “YOU”! Start a revolution inside YOU!!!